By Henry 
You replay conversations in your head.
You wonder if you said too much. Or too little. Or the wrong thing.
And then you blame yourself for “overthinking.”
But here’s a quieter truth: sometimes you’re not overthinking — you’re just not being heard.
When Communication Feels One-Sided
You explain yourself carefully.
You soften your words.
You choose the right timing.
Yet somehow, the message never fully lands.
That gap — between what you say and what’s received — is exhausting.
The Emotional Cost of Not Being Acknowledged
Being unheard doesn’t always lead to arguments.
More often, it leads to silence.
You stop correcting. You stop clarifying. You stop trying.
Not because you don’t care — but because caring without response is draining.
Why You Start Questioning Yourself
When someone repeatedly misses your point, your mind looks for fault.
Was I unclear?
Am I too sensitive?
Should I just let this go?
Over time, self-doubt replaces self-trust.
That’s not overthinking. That’s emotional confusion.
Being Heard Isn’t About Volume
You don’t need to speak louder.
You don’t need better words.
You need presence.
Being heard happens when someone is willing to pause, listen, and acknowledge — not just wait for their turn to speak.
What Helps (Without Over-Explaining)
- Notice who listen
Jaya Rana